Top radio and television presenter Ik Osakioduwa revealed the main reason why men cheat
– Ik is married to Olohije Osakioduwa and has two children Osahar and Micah
– Despite being a presenter, Ik Osakioduwa studied Economic at the University of Lagos (UNILAG)
Ik Osakioduwa and wife
Popular Nigerian On Air Personality (OAP), Ik Osakioduwa is a Nigerian radio and television presenter. Fondly known as Wildchild before marriage and now referred to as IK, is popularly known as Big Brother Africa (BBA), presenter.
In an interview with Genevieve Magazine, IK revealed why men are not committed in their marriage, he explains the true meaning of love, how he met his wife and what it takes to be the man of the house.
On how he met his wife, Ik disclosed that he has been friends with his wife for seven years before they started dating, adding that he is not one of those men who gets involved in intimacy without commitment.
He said: “We were friends for 7 years before we ever started dating. I told her I wanted to marry her before we started dating. I am not one of those guys that does intimacy without commitment (IWC) I would not date a girl for seven years like she is a postgraduate degree. Even though she was seeing someone else at the time, I told her (See I’ve known the most important things I need to know about you, we are great friends and I think you and I can be friends for the rest of our lives). Note to boys out there, the girl does not have to be single to toast her. If the boy she is dating has not put a ring on her finger, she is fair game for anyone to toast. Eventually she broke up with him and she wanted to give it another six months to make sure it wasn’t a rebound relationship but I waited because I knew I was there for the long haul. 6 months was nothing; I was ready to be there for life.”
IK
Explaining the true meaning of love, Ik describes love has been patient, kind, understanding but for him it is more than that, adding that it has to be consistent, dependable and 100 per cent.
Ik said: “It is patient, kind, and understanding but for me love has to be more than that. It has to be consistent and dependable, it has to be 100 percent. It can’t be seasonal or dependent on my behavior. Love loves you enough to take you as you are but loves you too much to leave you as you are. Love is a clear lucid moment’s decision that says I have got your back no matter what.”
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Revealing why men do not commit themselves in any relationship, he said: “Nobody requires commitment of men anymore. Why did guys commit in the past? Because it was required that at a certain age a man would do the right thing and settle down. His parents required it and it was required by his job to present a formidable front. Certain jobs in the past wouldn’t consider a single man as M.D because unmarried men were considered irresponsible. Women would rarely sleep with you talk less of become your babymama without getting married to them. It was taboo, but this generation permits everything.”
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